From the first kiss to the first time you let them hit, dating is full of physical attraction and sexual tension. But actually talking about sex and the things you desire can be a bit tricky. So today we’re going to discuss how to have engaging conversations with your partner, whether it’s the first date…
Read MoreTHE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE *for the girl who can’t seem to initiate*
I can be a bit of a hornball to be quite frank. Which is nothing I’m embarrassed to say aloud, because it’s been scientifically proven that women desire sex way more than men. We could go round after round. Orgasm after orgasm. We talk about it to our friends. Read magazines with interesting tips. We…
Read MoreTHE V-DAY LINGERIE GUIDE
Ninety-nine times out of a hundred, women give absolutely nothing but vagina for Valentine’s day and expect the best from their significant others. And honestly, that’s not my business. But in the event that is you (ladies) I want us to present our p*ssy in the prettiest way possible. Meaning a step above the Fashionnova…
Read MoreSex + Spirituality
Sex was always something I deemed for marriage. I grew up in the church where topics like these were often discussed, and abstinence of course was always encouraged. In high school, sex wasn’t very tempting. I was a nerd who was so busy being the black poster child that I didn’t really think about it.…
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Insecurities in the Bedroom
Sex is extremely personal, commonly known as the closest a man and woman can get. It’s a unique privilege and whether you believe it or not, that person now has a part of you. That’s why you can’t have sex and look at that person the same. They’ve seen it all. You’ve LITERALLY been inside…
Read MoreThe Struggle of Being Dickmitized
“Girl what’s wrong? / My man ain’t shit… / But why you won’t leave em? / Cause b*tch… the dick too bomb.” To be dickmitized can be an amazing, yet traumatizing experience and more people have gone through it than you think. Ain’t no shame ladies! Sometimes you’re just blessed with an amazing penis. Amazing is…
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How To Make the Perfect Booty Call
“You know I never put the pressure on you. You know that you make your own mind up. You know what it was when you signed up.” You’re horny and lonely, but more so horny. It’s 2AM and you’re truly considering whether or not to send that risky text. It’s happened to us all, and…
Read MoreBODIES.
From what I gathered if you never saved their number, then it doesn’t count. Apparently if you listen to Kirk Franklin’s Rebirth album after some trash sex it doesn’t count. Side pieces only count for 25% of a body. So it would take 4 side jawns to truly cheat on your girl. If she don’t text…
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LADIES: It Ain’t His Fault… It’s Yours
If there’s one thing we as females are quick to do, it’s say that niggas ain’t shit. And sometimes they’re not. But you know who else ain’t shit: our own selves. Often times we as females don’t take responsibility for our own actions. You know he’s not going to cuff you. He’s not going to…
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How to Successfully Have a Friends With Benefits
FWB Definition: two individual friends, who have sex and express absolutely no romantic feelings towards one another. Most common amongst college aged students. Strongly considered the most hazardous type of casual sex. The problem more often than not, is that one partner doesn’t explicitly express their emotions towards the other. So when they finally do and the emotions are not…
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